I got a referral for something that I think is not fair?

It sounds as if Ivy is jealous. One bad referral is not going to ruin your life. I wouldn't deal with Ivy at all. Take this as a learning lesson. Anything that Ivy does to you write it down in a journal for evidence. Just in case she tries anything again. Hey there will be a lot more Ivy's in the world. As far as your dad, did you tell him what Ivy been doing to you. This too will p. When you are older you will look back and laugh at this situation. Trust Me!!!!!